What are some ways to overcome your fears of being scared of ghosts, how have you dealt with these types of things? I work in a hotel in my city and there is a certain room there, that someone committed suicide in, and when i go in there, i feel a sense of someone watching me, and my stomach starts to turn. I hate it, but i have to go in there to clean.
How courageous! Good for you. What does Management advise for you to do?
Well…. Try this: Address her by name. Let her know why you’re in the room & how long you may be. You could either verbally sympathize with her or do just the opposite tell her to leave you alone ~ perhaps both? Remind her of the date, time & year. If the spirit is the young woman then tell her what you do know of her situation & that you won’t tolerate it. Then try telling her that there’s people who love & understand her waiting on the other side. See if that works.
This may be simple for me to say since I have dealt with ghosts since early childhood. As a child I was scared to death as some of my experiences with them were terrifying...but that's another story.
Over the years I started to realize that they are dead, and there is absolutely nothing I or they can do about it. I figured that was all they could do was stare at me, or walk past me...and nothing more.
Though they feel like they are in our demension...they are not. They are in a entirely different demension from ours.
That person you speak of that commited suicide, the reason why they are there..is they are stuck. I have read...but still have more to research that when they commit suicide...they don't get to see the light...they are stuck in limbo. Now what I do which I find very rewarding, is to send them home to the light. What you have to do is say to yourself, they can't harm you. If this lost soul wanted to hurt you, then he/she would have already done it...or at least tried. Here at Angels & Ghosts we have a section on "Spirit Rescue" you might want to check that thread out and see if this might help you.
But I strongly suggest trying not to show fear, I know it's hard to say this..but since now you are much older.. they really can't do much to you anyways except throw things or move objects.
Continue.....
When you enter this room...announce your presense to them, let them know you are there and what you are about to do...as to clean the room.
Don't be afraid to speak to them loudly as to tell them that their presense freaks you out and not to stare. Trust me...they can hear you loud and clear.
Let them know how you feel...speak to them...tell them your feelings.
Tell them that they need to seek the light...ask them if they believe in God and ask them to find peace within their hearts and forgive themselves for what they have done and move on.
In the "Spirit Rescue" thread, it tells you how to call upon the archangels to come and take them home.
When they have left the room entirely...you will not only feel it...but you will know for sure they are gone when the whole room feels open once more.
Facing fears until knowledge (through new experience) is gained is how we overcome. Read up on ghosts at the main site, as there are many informative articles. Understand their condition, which will likely breed compassion for the hurting unseen. :C)