Presence of a friend who died recently is near and with me

[Jane]

Hi all -

this is very new to me so I feel funny posting it - but here goes.

A dear friend of mine died recently and now I have heard him and felt him near me since then. Yesterday I actually heard him call me three times - but my daughter did not hear it - which surprised me since she does have the gift to see and feel spirits. Most of the time now he talks to me in my head - a running conversation, and at first it took me off guard and I thought - wow what an imagination I have. But when he is not talking to me - I can not "create" it in my head, so I realized it is not my imagination.

I have never had this happen before so it is new and a bit creepy, but in some sense a bit nice to know he is still here with me. He had made a couple jokes and chuckled about them and told me new things I did not know that have been verified later by others who knew him. So all in all it has been an interesting experience.

hopefully you all do not think I am crazy....

blessings to all and happy hauntings
have a good spooky weekend - LOL

[AUTMAN]

Hi Jane
I think it is great that your friend has contacted you.
The big question is why ?
Is there something he needs to tell you.
Is there something wrong.
Is he resisting going into the light.
If it was my friend I think I would want to help him.
I don't think you are crazy at all.
I have felt that way some times also, but if you really have the gift then you must use it to help him.
That is not crazy that is called love love of a person who has put out a lot of energy just to talk to you.
But I would still want to know why.
Please let us know how this turns out.
Also please remember we all are here to help if you need us.
If you can't tell us thing like this here then were can you ?

Autman

[Jane]

thanks so much for your post Autman....

he is still here because he is concerned about his children, and he died unexpectedly. He had been sick a long time and was in pain, so he is relieved of his physical pain, which has been a relief to him, but he is concerned about those he loves here that he has left behind.

I think we who love him have been reluctant to let him go also - which I guess is a bit selfish. His death was sudden, although we all knew he was ill, I do not think we expected his death to come so soon.

Believing me is a big help - your words are encouraging to me, as I said, I was even reluctant to post this. But it has been such a moving and unexpected experience, it is hard to keep it to myself.

I must say it is wonderful to have him here with me, so I need to move past that and help him move on - I know that - but he is not really ready to move on either.

I will keep you posted - thanks again for your words of encouragement. Love is a very powerful thing - I am realizing that more than ever now....

jane

[AUTMAN]

Hi Jane I figured there must be some reason for his contact.
If it were me I to would also want to make sure my family was ok .
This could take some time, but your goal should be to help him realize there is nothing he can really do now, and assure him that you will help anyway you can to see that his family and friends will be ok.

I will pray for god to give you the strength to help him find his way.


Autman

[Jane]

thanks dear friend.
it means alot.

[Kat - Administrator]

Your not crazy...this is what I experience all the time.

I hear voices in my head when the spirits talk to me, and people know I am not making this stuff up because they say things to me that nobody would understand, like saying something out of my normal conversation.

That is good that he speaks to you...he feels comfort around you.

[Jane]

thanks Kat