i'v only had two "paranormal" experiances in my life that i am aware of but they were intense enough for me to be permanantly stuck on the what if's and what is. My first experiance was as a child maybe 6 or 7, my father had commited suicide when i was 8 months old and untill i was about 6 i had no idea i even had a father it was just me and my mom... so one night shortly after my mother explained to me why i didnt have a father i was sleeping and i got woken up by the feeling of someone siting down on my bed when i looked there was the man my mom had showen me in the pictures (my dad), he just sat there for what seemed to be minutes and then said something to the effect of "i need something to drink" and then patted my leg and said "you'll be fine honey" and then just disapeared... i layed there awake not sure hat to make of it... at that age i had not been exposed to ghost stories or even the idea of them...i went back to sleep when i woke up there was an emty glass that looked like it had had milk in it tipped over at the end of my bed...i dont drink milk never have and i later got in trouble for it because there were no food or drinks aloud anywere in the house but in the kitchen. My other experiance happened when i was about 14 i had met a boy and him and his friends invited me to go break into a suposedly haunted closed down mental home up in orange county...i went with them not wanting to seem like a chicken to the boy i had a crush on and once there we hoped a fence and enter through a hole in the boards the place was a mess there was metal beds and bed pans all over the place as well as other busted up care equiptment after about 15 minutes of being in there i kept walking into cold spots and the hair on my neck would stand straight up all 3 of our cell phones suddenly died at just about the same time as i was to freaked out to stay i decided to just go wait outside for them and as they kept going i went back to find the way i got in to leave and as i was passing through one of the creepiest rooms i had seen in there so far a bed pan seemed to just fall on its own off of one of the metal beds at the same time that that had happened i was also experiancing a cold spot and massive chills....i ran like hell. the boys said they heard nothing nor experianced nothing while they were in there.